Journeys of a Wandering Wordsmith
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Four Seasons of America; Four Seasons of My Soul
Now months removed from this trip, I look back and notice something of a correlation with both the climate of these diverse corners of America and also the climate of my soul as I encountered each one...
Am I a Writer?
At the end of the day – or, rather, at each day's sacred start – despite all the excuses or hard realities, I must ask myself this question: am I a writer? Do I still self-identify as someone who writes? Because if I'm not doing that regularly – writing – am I, by definition, still a writer?
I Can't Believe I Came From Her
My grandmother died. These words rattle around my heart like pinballs that won't settle, even a week beyond her funeral. And yet I wonder if the settling of these pinballs would be any better – the finality of their lodging into the belly of that machine, no longer kept alive by another flap of the paddles. Mayme Alice was the last of my grandparents to leave this earth, and undoubtedly the one with whom I grew closest.
2021: Wasted
I look back on this year and can't help but feel the wince of apparent wasted time. The lethargy of a lingering pandemic, the apathy of my creative soul, and the heavy, sometimes brutal work of ministry. Of holding less and less tightly to relationships – even if it means letting some go. My 34 years of life feels increasingly like a bell curve. Isolation and worthlessness filling the lowly cracks of my adolescence; a rising wave of optimism for my twenties, filled with new friends and adventures aplenty; and a steady decline of ambition into my mid-thirties.
A Time to Step Out and Speak Out
As a conflict-avoidant person, I've always had this general rule of thumb: stay away from politics when talking with other humans – online or offline. Just stay away. But something's changed in the last year. A tension not previously felt now rages in me, building over the span of Trump's presidency. I've often been left wondering: at what point do I step out and speak out . . . and at what point do I just throw up my hands and take a deep breath and let it be, and pray, and pray? It's hard to sit down for my weekly blog and ignore last week's events at the Capitol. The insanity that erupted and has been swirling in America, within Christianity since Donald Trump descended down that escalator six years ago. It's all I've been thinking about this week, and again I feel the tension. Bubbling tension that must be released.
Am I Worthy of Your Giving?
Am I really worth your hard-earned dollars? Am I worth your kindness? You say I am, but am I really? I don't want to waste my money – your money. I don't want to buy things I don't "need." But I also "need" some amount of pleasure and joy. Can I buy a milkshake with your money? What about a new lamp for my studio? I want to make you proud of my journey, however much you've contributed to it. I want to be worthy of every cent.
These Hills Have Me
I'm not getting out much these days. I used to sprawl all over this city and region, but I've become more of a homebody than ever before. But I'm living in my favorite dwelling I've ever built for myself, a homier, "Tom-ier" place than anywhere else, complete with maps and globes and buffalo art; early mornings with lighted candles and open windows and blanketed fog amidst the canopy. It feels good to be a body in this home.
'Twas the Night Before Treatment
Tomorrow morning, bright and early, I set out on a new quest. A new quest within an already new journey of the last couple months – this unforeseen journey with an autoimmune disease. Tomorrow begins this new quest for healing and recovery. Remission. Or so I hope.
40 Days of Ashes
Forty days ago, I sought to burn my psalms for Lent. Writing one in the back of my journal before bed each night, then ripping out the page, entering my closet and closing the door behind me, and setting fire to my words in an old toolbox. It was a different sort of Lenten season this year, for many reasons, and I have three main thoughts.
Thank You for Being Brave
I'm writing this blog from home. And I never blog from home. Like ever. I have no other choice. Nothing is open. No late-night coffee shops and no early-night coffee shops either, for that matter. Coronavirus has violently disrupted every facet of normalcy. Society's. My own. Normal Monday evenings aren't normal Monday evenings anymore. And for God only knows how much longer.
Burn Up Your Psalms
I've participated sporadically in Lent over the last decade. Some years I think nothing of it; others, I've fasted from food or masturbation. I recalled this notion of psalm-writing. Of putting away my Bible and penning my own. As a writer, I feel it hold such an allure; as a human, too. I'd been wanting to connect with my Creator like this for many months. Why hadn't I? What's been holding me back?
Healthy Rest / Unhealthy Rest
I'm realizing healthy rest bleeds into my productivity. "Healthy productivity" – that's a thing, too. Not just being productive from a sense of duty, distracting-distracting-distracting your heart, but producing from a well-stewarded overflow. Incorporating rest not just after but into my productivity – this is the magic.
To Bleed Unfettered on the Page
A friend recently recommended we shut our Bibles for a second and pen some psalms of our own. I couldn't stop smiling and feeling convicted over his blunt advice. I want to follow it. So, here's to 2020. A bright and shiny new year with a bright and shiny new journal.
I'll Never Reach a Million People
More than ever, I long for my financial needs to be fully met so I can invest even more into creating: more time, more energy, more projects, more equipment. And thus even more connection. How nice it would be right now to have a million supporters. Or at least a few hundred thousand. Heck, a thousand. But here's the thing I desperately need to keep reminding myself. It's what I'm still learning from the hundreds of blogs, books, podcasts, and videos put out over the last decade. I'll never reach a million people if I don't reach the one.
My Name on a Stone
I traveled to Pennsylvania for Christmas, my first trip there since Ahh died this summer. My grandfather's gravestone wasn't chiseled until just recently, so this was my first time visiting it. Seeing it. It was the first time I'd ever seen my name on a stone.
This Chasm of Calling
On the one hand, I'm thrilled. I've never been more passionate in my calling as a storyteller. And yet on the other hand, the more I discover my God-given passions, talents, and deep gladness, the more burdened grows my soul; the more hungry, my heart. I feel the strain in the disconnect between what I want and what I believe God wants for me and others in this chasm of the not yet.
Anything Mentionable is Manageable
I saw the new Mr. Rogers movie, "A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood." It's unlike any other movie I've seen. A unique story structure, beautiful set design, and phenomenal acting. "A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood" is a movie that will stick with me for a while. I was teary-eyed the entire way – both from the sheer beauty of this story and its haunting connections to my own.
Pen Strokes and Chisels to the Soul
I've grown more in the last two years than the previous ten. More than ever, I feel God's hand guiding mine like pen strokes while chiseling my soul. A mystical also brutal process.
A Safe Place to Vomit My Heart
I returned to counseling last week for the first time in six months. Counseling, therapy — I never know what to call it. How about a safe place to vomit my heart? Above all, I've needed two things sorely: Scripture and Jesus. Even after just one session back, I feel enriched: a session bookended with prayer as I shared the overview of my story. I started choking up after just twenty minutes.
I Like Coming Home?
I recently climbed the stairwell to my new apartment with a bag full of groceries and thought this distinct thought: I like coming home. It startled me, and I immediately recognized its significance. Because I couldn't remember the last time I'd thought this thought. Alas — it's been years since I truly enjoyed coming home.